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EDUCATION

THEIR FUTURE IS LOOKING UP

 Smartphones and social media raise urgent questions about how we protect our children and their childhoods in the digital age. As has been seen with efforts to get people to use seatbelts or to stop smoking, new norms take time - and courage - to establish. At SFCNZ, we’re learning together, sharing research, real stories, and trusted voices to help families and schools make confident, research backed, values-led choices.

This moment matters.

 

More and more parents across Aotearoa are asking: is this really what childhood should look like in a digital age?

 

The Parent Pact is about finding a better way—together.

 

If you’re ready to take a stand for our kids’ wellbeing, we’d love you to join us.

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Research & Interviews

Physical health

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Paediatric Opthomologist

Screens and eyesight - What parents need to know

Paediatric Physiotherapist

Latest recommendations for screen use in schools

Outdoor Education Expert

Let's talk about the paradox of raising children in the digital age

Sexual health

Parenting Place & Makes Sense

Co-Founder

How can we better protect our children in a digital age?

Our Kids Online Speaker

How can we keep our children safe online?

Social and societal impact 

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Play Expert and Politician

How are modern cities and modern technologies changing the landscape of childhood?

Play Expert Educational Consultant & Co-founder of Conscious kids

How do smartphones impact on our tamariki?

Tend Health CEO

Lets raise the minimum age for smartphones to 16!

Mental health and brain focus

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Neuroscience Educator

To delay or not to delay? what does the latest research indicate?

Screen Use Researcher - University of Auckland 

Social Media Reform Advocate

Raise the minimum legal age for social media access to 16?

Safesurfer CEO

Why is it important to ensure internet safety for our children?

Blogs
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Blogs
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Alternatives
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Our young people are navigating a digital landscape, and technology presents numerous benefits to them. However, often adult smartphones are passed down to them prematurely rather than as a final option.

We advocate for a gradual introduction to technology. Below are some alternative options for consideration. While we try to offer sound guidance it's essential to carry out your own research before purchasing or using any of these products.

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- NZ/AUS version - exclusive seller. - The best rugged, old school phone on the market. - Perfect first phone for kids - Massive battery life. - Drop proof - water proof. - FM radio. - No internet. - Basic, low megapixel camera. - Powerful side button torch. - Tested in NZ to NZ/AUS specs. - Unlocked - use with any carrier.

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- NZ/AUS version. - The best rugged flip phone on the market. - Perfect first phone for kids - Massive battery life. - Drop proof - water proof - dust proof. - FM radio. - Side button torch. - Basic, low megapixel camera. - No internet. - Three easy dial stored number keys. - Unlocked - use with any carrier.

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- NZ/AUS version - Rugged and reliable - Perfect first phone for kids or seniors - 4G and VoLTE capable - Massive battery life - Drop-proof, waterproof, dust-proof - FM radio - Side button torch - Basic camera - No internet access - Speed dial keys - Unlocked - Dual SIM support - Expandable storage - USB-C charging

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Both the Light Phone II and III (Ships from US to NZ) have Bluetooth & wifi. 

Both also support wifi tethering as a personal hotspot. Although there is wifi, the device will never be able to browse the internet.

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Designed in collaboration with Samsung, the Kid-Safe Smartphone. Designed to unlock different apps at age-appropriate levels.

Speakers
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SPEAKERS
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SFCNZ promotes  independent, trusted voices making a difference for families and children—from sociologists and screen researchers to psychotherapists, e-safety advocates, and wellbeing experts. These speakers help spark dialogue, shift perspectives, and bring communities together. Click through to explore and connect directly—hosting a talk is a powerful way to start the journey.

Adrienne
Adrienne Wood 

Relational Attachment in a Digital World - Contact Adrienne

Adrienne offers support to both parents and professionals with troubling or complex child and adolescent behaviours through her business Heartsync NZ. Her current role on Faculty with the Neufeld Institute alongside her past experience puts her in a unique position to make sense of what is behind our kids’ drive toward screens in the Digital Age we now find ourselves in. Adrienne has two talks: 1. Teens and their Screens (Targets parents of 11-18yrs) - Understand key risky online behaviours that are driving the adolescent mental health crisis - Learn about recent research-based protocols around digital safety - Get insight into the root cause behind teens’ drive towards screens grounded in instinct, emotion and the attachment-circuitry of the brain. 2. Raising Resilient Kids in a Digital World: Can be tailored to target either teaching professionals or parents of teens and pre-teens - Discover the roots of resilience based in rest, play and emotional expression - Uncover the impact of screens on the natural resilience process - Equips parents and professionals to cultivate resilience in kids amidst the challenges of the digital age

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Dr Samantha Marsh

What the Research Tells Us - Contact Samantha

Samantha is a Senior Research Fellow in the Department of General Practice and Primary Healthcare at the University of Auckland. Her PhD focused on the relationship between screen use and childhood obesity in children and adolescents. Samantha's interests include social media use, youth mental health, and cyberbullying. She approaches these issues through the lens of relationship science, drawing on her 10 years of experience in science communication to share her research with both academic and broader audiences. Samantha gives two different talks on screen use and children. For rangatahi (youth), her presentation focuses on smartphones and social media use, making it suitable for primary, intermediate, and secondary school parents and educators. The first part of the talk explores how social media and other technology are designed, how teens develop, and the mismatch between the two. The second part is solution-focused, aiming to empower parents and communities to navigate the digital environment effectively and make informed decisions for the well-being of their children. For tamariki, Samantha's presentation targets parents of kindergarten and early primary school children, addressing a range of screen use topics from TVs to smartphones. It examines how screens impact early childhood development and provides a holistic parenting approach, emphasising the importance of nurturing a strong parent-child relationship

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Emily Smith

Physical Activity, Healthy Habits, and Resilience - Contact Emily

Emily, based in the Wellington region, brings a unique hauora-based approach that bridges physical health, mental wellbeing, and digital safety. She has seen how strong foundations in physical activity, healthy habits, and resilience can strengthen mental health, emotional regulation, and overall balance, giving young people healthier options for connection beyond screens. Through her work with schools, sports clubs, and families, Emily speaks with both young people and parents/caregivers. She believes real change happens when communities come together: change is possible when we act together. Her workshops focus on teaching tamariki the skills to bounce back, building resilience, and the importance of staying active in a world of instant gratification. Emily offers a range of engaging services, including: 1. School talks and in-school packages that deliver age-appropriate, relatable digital safety education 2. Workshops and webinars for parents, educators, and caregivers to support and protect tamariki in the digital world 3. In-person and online presentations on wellbeing, resilience, and fostering balanced tech use across the whole whānau

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Holly Jean Brooker

Online Safety and Content - Contact Holly 

Holly Jean Brooker is a parenting speaker and educator, passionate about helping families navigate the digital world. With a background in teaching, media, and advocacy, she equips parents with practical strategies for online safety, screen-time management, social media, gaming, and fostering a healthy family culture around device use. As the co-founder of Makes Sense, Holly works in advocacy and education to protect children from online harm and exploitation, pushing for stronger regulations at both the government and industry levels. She brings a wealth of experience, having spent five years at Parenting Place developing content and media around parenting and digital wellbeing. Previously, she was a high school teacher in health education and social sciences. Academically, Holly holds a BA in Political Studies and Sociology, a Graduate Diploma in Education, and is currently pursuing a Master’s in Public Policy at the University of Auckland, with a research focus on online harm. Holly’s engaging, research-backed talks offer practical, real-world advice to help parents confidently support their kids in a rapidly changing digital landscape. She offers a primary focussed talk, or intermediate/high school talk

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Martin Hughes

Learning First - Contact Martin 

Martin has worked with schools and communities across New Zealand over the last 20 years to raise learning outcomes and lower screen time for students and to reduce stress and workload for teachers and caregivers. He is a certified Google trainer, Change Manager and Professional Learning Coach. Martin’s talk is equally accessible for students (year 5 and above), teachers and caregivers. Screentime is a complicated issue and so Martin’s talk covers the following topics: 1. Brain development 2. Learning 3. Parenting 4. Adulting 5. Managing changes of habits within a school, whanau and community 6. Technical solutions as part of an holistic approach When we develop a shared understanding of how our brains develop and thrive, collective action around screentime can become much easier for everyone to manage

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Richie Hardcore

Mental Health and Sexual Violence Prevention - Contact Richie

Richie has runs a private practices as an educator and consultant, as well as working with New Zealand’s Ministry of Social Development #Change Is Possible campaign. His work on mental health and sexual violence prevention bought him to study a Masters of Sociology and the impacts social media and smart phone use has had on society, especially our youth. Richie’s presentation covers some of the risks that unrestricted access to phones and social media has on young people. These include online predators, exposure to pornography and sexual content, and online bullying. He also presents the research and argumentation of how social media is negatively affecting mental health, and body image, as well as being part of the driver of political radicalization and social polarization. Richie has spoken with tens of thousands of students in high schools, as well working within businesses, government agencies and NGOs

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Rob Cope

Internet Safety Advocate - Contact Rob

Filmmaker and Author Rob Cope talks on the topic of keeping our kids safe online. This is such a big community issue and we need to tackle it as a community.

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Vanessa McHardy

Mental Health and Wellbeing - Contact Vanessa 

Vanessa McHardy worked for over 20 years in the UK as an Integrative Child Psychotherapist (MA, UKCP registered) and now works in NZ, where her kaupapa focuses on reigniting a love for learning in schools through Life Skills for Mental Health and Wellbeing—a whole school community approach. Vanessa also provides counselling and coaching for young people and parents. In Vanessa's workshop, Reclaim Your Family Life with the Digital Reset, she focuses on... In today’s tech-driven world, screen time can feel like a constant battle. Vanessa empowers families with practical tools to reclaim balance, foster confidence, and support mental wellbeing. This powerful, three-step programme helps families: - Explore their values and priorities - Identify their true relationship with technology - Implement real, lasting changes to reclaim family life Digital Reset Workshop Series Vanessa facilitates parents with simple, actionable strategies over two sessions, one month apart: - Navigate the challenges of raising children in the digital age - Promote emotional resilience and healthy social development - Foster independence and mindful tech use - Reduce stress and create a more balanced family dynamic - Look at the different impact on girls and boys

Top Picks & Guidance
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 We’ve gathered some of the most powerful documentaries, books, and practical tools to help families, schools, and communities rethink the role of smartphones and social media in childhood. These resources offer insight, inspiration, and real-world guidance—whether you're just starting out or deepening your understanding.

Top picks to watch

Top reads

Guidance

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